Nick and I met during our freshman year at Wheaton College. The one in Illinois, not the one in Massachusetts. I was playing powder puff football during Homecoming weekend and Nick, along with other guys on the football team, were our “coaches.” I thought he was a nice guy, but there was no spark or any consideration of dating him (on my end). Two of Nick’s friends, however, told him that he should date me shortly after we all had met. Well, those guys were on to something because 2 years later we began dating. It started when we were moving into our apartments before classes started our junior year. Our paths crossed a few times and before we knew it we were on our first date. We were engaged 9 months later and married 9 months after that.
The night Nick popped the question.
Senior Year Powder Puff – We’d come along way since powder puff freshman year…
Me and #99, my defensive powerhouse man! I carried a sign all season that said “99 is mine and he’s fine!”
After a whirlwind summer in May 2010 – graduation, marriage, honeymoon, and moving – we found ourselves living in Littleton, Colorado. Nick was working at chick-fil-a and I was babysitting for two different families. Our work schedules were kind of opposite and we hardly knew anyone in the state, but that really didn’t phase us. We had so much fun that first summer in Colorado. We were house sitting for a family with a 5 bedroom house and a miniature Schnauzer named Sam. We had lots of visitors throughout the summer, which we had so much fun hosting in “our” big house. We spent some time camping in the mountains, checking out local restaurants, getting connected to a new church community, and exploring downtown Denver. Nick was going to Denver Seminary that fall for a Master’s in Divinity, so I needed to find a full-time job. I spent a lot of time applying to jobs and networking and by God’s grace and the help of a former Wheaton alum, I landed my second job interview. I was hired on as the “Homeownership Coordinator” at Denver Housing Authority (DHA). It was really a miracle that I got the job because a.) I didn’t even know what position I was being interviewed for until about 5 minutes before the interview b.) I have never owned a home and knew nothing about real estate and mortgages and c.) I had no government experience. Nonetheless, I got the job! We were relieved to finally have some financial security and stability and I was eager to get some experience working in the “real world.”
Rachel, my best friend and college roommate, visited us twice during our 1st few months in Colorado. She’s the best!
Camping in Winter Park with Nick’s brother Luke. My brother Ken stopped by and cooked us the most fabulous meal ever made over a fire!
When we got married we had no furniture to our name, unless an old TV Nick owned counts? So that summer we went to work finding the furniture essentials. We ended up having great luck at some antique stores and Goodwill where we found our retro kitchen table and chairs, a night stand (we still need a second one), an old chest, an “old man” chair, and a shelving unit. We attempted to repaint the night stand and chest, but we were so clueless. We didn’t even know you needed to strip the original color; we just painted right over the bottom layer. If you don’t look too closely, the night stand and chest look okay, so just don’t look too close. Someday…I’ll attempt a second go at it. After our house sitting gig ended in August 2010, we found a charming (aka tiny) one bedroom apartment in a great neighborhood in Denver. We lived on the same street as a great coffee shop, a bar and grill, and an Italian restaurant. It was the perfect neighborhood. At the time, we only had one car. Nick often drove me to and from work, but when he couldn’t, I could just take the city bus. The bus stop was only two blocks away and didn’t require any transfers. Nick began seminary around that time, which involved a grueling Greek class ever Monday morning from 8-11 am. He worked hard and excelled in his classes and spent his free time helping out at our church’s youth group, playing basketball with some guy’s in the neighborhood, making us dinners, and working as a part-time handyman. That September, I threw Nick a big 23rd birthday bash on the rooftop patio of our apartment building. By then, we somehow knew enough people (mostly from church and other Wheaton alum we discovered lived nearby) to have a big party that involved lots of food, keg beer, live music, and lots of pretty decorations (of course)! Unfortunately, I do not have any pictures from that party, but it was definitely a huge highlight of that year for both Nick and I.
Our very first bedroom on 1 S. Pennsylvania Street
Sometime in late fall, we started to REALLY want a dog. Our lease would not allow for a dog, but thankfully we had only opted for a 6 month lease. By the time our lease ended (January 2011), we had found another great apartment (a tiny bit bigger this time) only a few blocks away. This apartment was only a block off of South Broadway – a wonderful street lined with amazing restaurants, bars, and boutiques. (I’ll do another post sometime with my reviews on our favorite places around there. If you live in the Denver area, spend some time there. Just do it.) And, most importantly, we were able to adopt our incredible dog Lucy the first weekend we moved into our new, dog friendly abode. Lucy is a rescue dog from New Mexico. We got her at about 3 months old. She was so shy and quiet the first few days we brought her home (probably scared out her mind), but it didn’t’ take long for her fun loving personality to come out.
Bringing Lucy home for the first time.
Sweet Lucy girl on a car ride.
Early that summer, Nick and I decided Lucy needed a brother and Nick needed to balance out the male:female ratio in our household. Yes, we decided to be crazy dog people and adopt a 2nd dog while still living in a tiny apartment in the city. Thankfully, we lived very close to a dog park! Consequently, we adopted our adorable Amos in June 2011. Amos, also a rescue dog, was from Kansas and we adopted him at about 4 months old. It took Lucy a little while to adjust to another dog in her domain, but now they are inseparable best friends. Just yesterday Nick took Amos on an overnight event with the youth group and Lucy was moping around our place all day. She was ecstatic when her brother returned. We can’t imagine life without our two dogs, even if we are kind of crazy!
Precious Amos as a puppy.
Cuddly, sleeping pups on a car ride only a few weeks after Amos joined our family.
Later that summer Nick and I started considering making some major changes in our lives. We had such a desire to live close to family (my family being in Michigan and his family being in the Chicago area), so we started thinking about moving back to the Midwest. Nick also realized that he felt God calling him into full-time ministry instead of continuing on as a full-time student. He was determined to finish his M.Div degree, but felt God leading him on a new path. By that time, I was really unhappy at my job at DHA. I was thankful for the opportunities I had to grow professionally while there and I loved getting to know some of the housing residents on a personal level. However, I believe the staff could have been managed much better and a few individuals in supervisorial positions were not even remotely pulling their own weight, leaving people like me to pick up the slack by doing the job of 2-3 people. I was basically all for moving, so we both began applying to jobs in Michigan and Nick even applied and got accepted into a seminary in the West Michigan area. We planned a week long trip back home that August splitting up our time 50/50 between Michigan and Illinois. While in Michigan, Nick had an informal interview with a pastor that was very interested in him, however it was only a part-time position. During our time in Illinois, we toured another seminary and checked out some neighborhoods surrounding Chicago as potential relocation options. All the while, Nick was interviewing with a church in Parker (southeast Denver metro area) for a full-time Middle School Youth Pastor position. The application process was no joke. There were so many steps along the way and Nick almost didn’t finish the application process since we so desired to move back to the Midwest. However, we decided it would be best if he finished the application process…just in case.
Theobald Family photo – August 2011
Well, after our Tour de Midwest, we ruled out the Chicago area (too expensive, too much traffic, bitter, icy, slushy winters). We were still open to Michigan because of the low cost of living, better winters (more fluffy snow, thanks to the “lake effect”), and we would be very close to my family but still only a few hours from Nick’s family. Shortly after we got back, Nick was notified that he was a final candidate for the position in Parker. Through much prayer and consideration, we shifted gears and decided to stay in Colorado. Nick landed the job, registered for seminary part-time, and began on September 1, 2011. It also didn’t hurt that one of my best friends, Lonni, decided to move to Colorado that September. Lonni and I have been friends since 1st grade, so being able to live near her again was a dream come true!
Lonni and I shopping on South Broadway!
After working at the church for just a few weeks, we realized it was time to move out of our great Denver neighborhood and head southeast to be closer to Parker. We broke our lease a few months early and found a great condo with 2 bedrooms and a washer & dryer (woo hoo! no more coin-fed machines and laundromats!) for only a little more money than our tiny place in the city. We even have two balconies, which our dogs love hanging out in and staring/barking/whimpering at squirrels, birds, and rabbits below. {Side note: If anyone is counting…we have had 4 different addresses since moving to Colorado two years ago. Good thing my man is strong and such a good mover!}
Just before moving to our condo, at Nick’s urging, I put in my two weeks notice at DHA. He told me that since I had been the “breadwinner” for the last year and half that I should take a little break, rest, and be refreshed before diving into another job. I didn’t know what kind of job I should be looking for, but I took Nick up on his unbelievably sweet offer and had a “summer vacation” that fall 2011. I was able to travel a lot, flying to Indianapolis to meet my week old nephew Liam and visiting my best friend Rachel in D.C. I also was able to spend two weeks back home during Christmas! I was able to be a “kid” in my parent’s home again, spend time with childhood friends, and get extra time with relatives. It was such a blessing. But, by December I was definitely ready to get back into work even though I still didn’t know what was next. I came across the idea of being a school counselor while watching Friday Night Lights with my brother and sister-in-law in Indianapolis (on the visit to meet my sweet nephew). It’s hilarious now to look back and see that God used a trivial, high school football TV show to direct my career path. I started to casually research what a career in School Counseling might look like, but in the meantime took a part-time nanny position with a family in Wash Park.
Holding Liam at 1 week old.
Uncle Nick holding Liam at Christmas 2011.
Fast forward: 6 month old Liam and me!
(Can you tell I love being an Aunt?!)
2012 has been an interesting year so far. Nick LOVES being a youth pastor and it is such a joy to see him using God’s gifts to impact the lives of middle school students. He has grown so much through this position already! I love hearing him speak on Wednesday nights at youth group and I love seeing him interact with the kids. He cares about his students so deeply and could not imagine a better job on the planet. I am still nannying for that family in Wash Park, but will close that chapter in early August. This winter I applied to Denver Seminary to get a Master’s in School Counseling. I received my acceptance letter on St. Patrick’s Day when my mom was visiting us! I loved being able to get a “congratulations” hug from my mom instead of just telling her over the phone. I have begun two online classes this summer, but will take a full course load starting this fall. I hope to work one day a week babysitting while in grad school to bring in some extra moula.
Early morning leader meeting at winter camp!
Nick surprised the kids by jumping on stage & rapping at a youth event. They went crazy!
Besides work and school, Nick and I are working hard to save money to buy our first HOME! We are excited to start a family, but have decided to work on owning a home before taking the plunge into parenting. We have been able to create some great relationships here in Colorado and are so blessed to have a loving, embracing church family. Life is really good. Crazy at times and not without challenges, but after 2 years of marriage we both agree we cannot imagine life without each other. He is my best friend and the love of my life and I cannot wait to see what’s next!
Recent photo: 2nd anniversary date during a family vacation in Florida!